The Atom and the Molecule
A chemical bond is a single pair of electrons two atoms hold in common.
What if two atoms could each get what they want — a full outer shell — not by stealing electrons from each other, but by sharing a pair?
The big idea
Atoms are pickier about their outermost electrons than about anything else. By 1916 chemists knew that many atoms are most content with eight electrons in their outer layer — the "octet" — and the old explanation was that one atom hands electrons to another, leaving both with tidy shells. That works for salt, where sodium gives an electron to chlorine. But it fails for most of chemistry: the gases, the oils, the carbon compounds of life, where no atom is willing to simply give an electron away.
Gilbert Lewis offered a better idea. Two atoms can each reach eight by sharing a pair of electrons that belongs to both of them at once. That shared pair is the chemical bond. Share one pair and you have a single bond; share two or three and you have a double or triple bond. To keep track, Lewis drew each outer electron as a dot around the atom's symbol — the dot pictures still taught in every chemistry class.
How it came about
Lewis traced the idea back to a teaching sketch he had drawn in 1902, of an atom as a little cube with an electron possible at each of its eight corners — a full shell being a full cube. He sat on it for years. When he finally published in 1916, he was not alone: Walther Kossel in Germany worked out the electron-transfer side of the story the same year, and Lewis's rule of eight built on an earlier one by Richard Abegg.
Then Irving Langmuir, a brilliant and tireless speaker, took up Lewis's scheme, named the "octet," and carried it across the chemical world so forcefully that people began calling it Langmuir's theory — which stung Lewis, who had thought of it first. And for all his influence, Lewis was nominated for the Nobel Prize dozens of times and never won it, one of the most famous oversights in the prize's history.
Why it mattered
The shared pair turned a pile of unexplained facts into a single clear rule, and it gave chemists a way to draw any molecule and predict how it would behave. Almost everything a chemistry student learns to do on paper — figure out a molecule's shape, follow a reaction by pushing electron pairs around with arrows, judge whether a structure is reasonable — descends directly from Lewis's dots. It is hard to find an idea more woven into the daily practice of chemistry.
A way to picture it
Think of two people who each need a full pair of gloves but each owns only one glove of a matching pair. Neither wants to give a glove away. Instead they agree to hold one pair of gloves jointly between them — a pair that counts as "complete" for both. That jointly-held pair is the bond. If they need more warmth they can hold a second or third shared pair. And just as no hand can wear more than a certain number of gloves, no small atom can hold more than eight outer electrons — try to force more and the arrangement simply won't form.
Where it sits
Lewis came just after the periodic table (mendeleev-1869) had sorted the elements and just as physicists were taking the atom apart — Thomson's electron, Rutherford's nucleus, Bohr's shells. He used their electrons but kept a chemist's eye, asking not what the atom is but how it bonds. The deeper why — what makes a shared pair stick — came next, when quantum mechanics reached chemistry in Pauling's hands (pauling-1931). Lewis's dots are the bridge between the periodic table and the quantum chemical bond.
…the total difference between the maximum negative and positive valences or polar numbers of an element is frequently eight, and is in no case more than eight.