From slope to limit
Pick a function f and a point a in its domain. For a nearby point x, the difference quotient (f(x) − f(a)) / (x − a) is the slope of the straight line — the secant — through the two graph points (a, f(a)) and (x, f(a)). It is an honest, computable number for every x ≠ a. The derivative is what this slope settles down to as x is squeezed toward a.
Formally, f is differentiable at a if the limit of the difference quotient as x → a exists. We call that number f′(a). The whole content of differentiation lives in this one limit; everything later is consequences. Writing h = x − a, the same definition reads as the limit of (f(a + h) − f(a)) / h as h → 0, which is often easier to compute with.
A derivative computed from the definition
Let us not assume any rules. We compute the derivative of f(x) = x² at an arbitrary point a directly from the limit, so you can see the machinery turning.
Claim: f(x) = x^2 is differentiable at every a, with f'(a) = 2a.
Difference quotient (h ≠ 0):
(f(a+h) - f(a)) / h
= ((a+h)^2 - a^2) / h
= (a^2 + 2 a h + h^2 - a^2) / h
= (2 a h + h^2) / h
= 2a + h (valid because h ≠ 0, so we may cancel)
Now take the limit as h -> 0:
lim_{h->0} (2a + h) = 2a.
The limit exists, so f is differentiable at a and f'(a) = 2a. ∎
Sanity check at a = 3: f'(3) = 6, and the secant slopes 2(3)+h = 6+h
clearly approach 6 as h shrinks (h=0.1 -> 6.1, h=0.01 -> 6.01).Differentiable forces continuous
The first real theorem of the subject: if f is differentiable at a, then f is continuous at a. This is differentiability implies continuity. The proof is a one-line algebraic trick plus the algebra of limits.
Theorem: if f is differentiable at a, then f is continuous at a.
Proof. For x ≠ a write the identity
f(x) - f(a) = ( (f(x) - f(a)) / (x - a) ) · (x - a).
As x -> a:
first factor -> f'(a) (this is exactly the derivative)
second factor -> 0 (since x - a -> 0)
By the algebra of limits, the product of the limits is the limit:
lim_{x->a} ( f(x) - f(a) ) = f'(a) · 0 = 0,
hence lim_{x->a} f(x) = f(a). That is continuity at a. ∎