centralizer
Fix an element of a group and ask: which other elements commute with it — that is, don't care in which order you multiply? The set of all such cooperative elements is its centralizer. It measures how “central” the chosen element is: the bigger the centralizer, the more of the group treats that element as interchangeable in products.
Formally, the centralizer in G of an element a is C_G(a) = { g in G : ga = ag }, and more generally the centralizer of a subset S is C_G(S) = { g in G : gs = sg for all s in S }. Each centralizer is a subgroup of G. The centralizer of the whole group is the center Z(G), the elements commuting with everything.
Centralizers control conjugacy: the centralizer C_G(a) is precisely the stabilizer of a under the conjugation action, so by orbit-stabilizer the conjugacy class of a has size [G : C_G(a)]. Thus large centralizer means small class and vice versa. Centralizers also appear constantly in the structure theory of finite groups — for instance, in a finite simple group the centralizer of an involution carries enormous structural information, a fact at the heart of the classification.
In S_3 the centralizer of the transposition (1 2) is { e, (1 2) }, of order 2, since no other permutation commutes with it. By orbit-stabilizer the class of (1 2) has size 6 / 2 = 3, matching the three transpositions.
A small centralizer forces a large conjugacy class.